https://www.posetteforever.com/viewtopic.php?f=34&t=3439
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Whazizname
Tuesday, 10 March 2009, 06:21 PM

Whazizname
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Hi there all!

I'm writing this little note to say that I will not be around much for a while (hopefully, only a little while...).

The short version of the story is:

I've lost my home, family, internet access, and primary hard drive. I am doing all that I can to get my computer repaired, and Internet access restored; but I think that it will take a little time before I am back to my old self.

I want to thank you all for the inspiration, and support you've shown me during my time here.
Posette Forever is without a doubt, my favorite place in the Online Poser Community!!

:hug2:


Take care until next time...
(:


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Tormie
Tuesday, 10 March 2009, 11:09 PM

Re: Whazizname
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That is truely sad Whazizname :sad: ... I don't know what's happened to you, it sounds very bad... 

Your message is also creepy, I hope this is "only" a divorce because I don't understand that "I lost my family"... You looked to me like a nice father my friend...

Milwaukee is so far from here, as usual I can be only of little help, I feel useless :( ...

If you want to PM/email me or other friends here feel free to do it, sometimes talking about it gives you some relief if not some good suggestions :friends: ...

We'll take your seat warm for when you'll come back my friend :hug2: Please don't disappear :crybaby:

I'll miss you my friend... Tormie is in tears...


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Nik
Wednesday, 11 March 2009, 01:49 PM

Ouch...
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Ouch...

I'm so sorry, I thought at first that you were picking up pieces after 'Fire & Rescue' hose-down.

Having family implode is much, much worse.

We've just seen kin split like SanAndreas following a funeral: Terrible things were said, vicious accusations made, long-standing friendships & holiday exchanges went onto bonfire, witzend carers accused of 'passive aggression' when truth was 'compliance fatigue' and mind-numbing exhaustion etc etc...

Try not to hit bottle, wall or by-standers, such just makes things worse...

Try not to harden your heart against your Ex, gonna be bad enough...

Please take care.


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JanReinar
Wednesday, 11 March 2009, 01:57 PM

Re: Whazizname
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:shocked!: My God! It looks so sad!  :crying: I hope that all ends well for you and that you can return very soon!  :pray:  :pray:  :pray: 

All the best to you my friend!  :pray:  :friends:


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leahman
Wednesday, 11 March 2009, 04:15 PM

Re: Whazizname
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[font=Comic Sans MS]:uuh:  -as[i][b] always[/b][/i]
I don't know -whatz [i]going on...[/i]

I can't imagine 
even[i] how this could happen....[/i]
 :stomp: 
with nothing to [i]go on—[/i]
all I can say, my friend—
is  "go to the matresses"—
and get [i]it back.[/i]

You -can not [i]be replaced....[/i]

We -will be [u]waiting[/u] for your [u]return[/u] ! :thumb: 

 :sad: 
Your friend
leahman[/font]


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tda42
Thursday, 12 March 2009, 02:54 AM

Re: Whazizname
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My gosh this is very sad news. :crying: I had no idea this
was getting bad for you my friend. If you need to talk I
am here for you. I have been down that road before. But
I have not had as much loss as you but the heartbreak
is still the same. You know we all have had hard times and when
we start feeling sorry about ourselves we look at other
friends and say wow! I never had it that bad. I am glad I am
not in your shoes and I understand a loss. But when you wake up
it is another day to start to rebuild. I did and I wouldn't take anything
from my life. Good or bad. So I say to you my friend if you can
get here to the site. You know we are her for you and we will be waiting
as always. The PF has always had a light on for anyone who joins
in the fun. :friends: 

Hurry back my friend
I'll be thinking of you in my thoughts and prayers


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rayera
Tuesday, 24 March 2009, 12:07 PM

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I'm so sorry Whazizname  :sad:  hope things get better soon, my best wishes and prayers for you friend  :friends:


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Whazizname
Wednesday, 13 May 2009, 12:22 PM

Re: Whazizname
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Duh taduh duh ta duhDUUH!

I'm back...   :yeah: 


I've actually been back online for about a month; but (...being that I am a very private person  :ninja: ...) I didn't quite feel ready to "socialize". (I did catch up, and keep up with the Poser freebies , though. :grin: )

I thank you all for the very kind words of support and encouragement. :hug2:  :friends:  {The prayers, and positive thoughts helped a lot, too! :thumb: } 

I will probably write a more detailed explanation, and exploration of "what happened" in the future; but I did not want to put off "socializing" (Ewww; there is that word again :hiding: ...) until then. The short version of the story is...:

I'm fine (...not unhurt, mind you; but still doing what I can , with what I've got... :cool: ). 

My computer is almost back to a usable condition. I have resumed most of my testing duties; and I've even created, and posted a few new images online (look in the gallery here...; sorry, no Posettes yet. :whistle: or on my Facebook page.  Did I mention, that I also have a deviantart gallery? :) 

I also have a slimmed down version of my music studio up & running; but due to troubles with the optical drives, I can not (yet) reinstall my video production software.


So;

Again I want to thank everyone for the kindness and support! 

Enough, about me; what have I missed here?
 :mmmh: 



Take care until next time...
 :hug2:  :friends: 

(:


