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Thursday, 11 January 2007, 09:35 AM

Re: Please read, we need help and informations and ideas.
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Thank you everyone. 

A little update.

Today was a day for blunders, mine included.

The first was when a priest visited.  Before he did anything, I took him out to the hall to talk.  I wanted to know what he was going to do.  She said he was going to read from the Bible a passage about healing for the sick and pray for my Mom's recovery.  I told him fine as long as it in no way could look like the last rites.  I ddn't want her upset, he agreed.  and the what did he do?  The passage he read was boderline and the rest certianly looked like the last rites to my Mom.  She was terrified, although she could not make a sound or produce any tears, she began to cry.  I could tell from her expression and facial actions.  It was that of her most distressed crying.  He was oblivious to her reaction.  It took me about an hour to calm her again.

The provided the feeding tube today, but the first time, they made several errors and had to redo it.  But before redoing, they needed fresh X-Rays to check for something.  Much later, the right one was provided the right way.  And in the meantime in between the once that did not work and the one that does, she was provided the IV again.  I was also told tha they had used it very early morning too, before I arrived.

Today I did contact the office of the specialist, and an appointment for his visiting was made.  But something else must have happened that needed his attention, he did not arrive.  I also located his office but when I did, it was already closed for the day.  Now that I know where he is, I will visit in person.

I did find one realy nice person.  The nurse that was attending my mom today, and is scheduled to do so for the next two days also.  She treats my Mom as a person.

P.S. Erenda, Knowing your feelings about such thing as religion, I know how special your praying is.  Thank you.